[It's the Little Things] Temporarily Being a Stay at Home Mom.

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

This Christmas I was lucky enough to get SIX WHOLE DAYS off of work! SIX. That's like nearly impossible with my job, but Christmas fell on the right day and my boss was kind enough to let me have 2 additional days off to stay home with Mason.

You see, Mason's preschool is closed for TWO WEEKS during Christmas. TWO. That is a lot of time for either Seth or I to take off work ourselves or to try to find someone to watch Mason. Thankfully both of our jobs were flexible and we had family who could watch him part of the time to make it easier on us. Papa took Monday and Tuesday of the first week, Seth was off Wednesday, Thursday was Christmas, and my work had a "floating holiday" for Friday. Monday and Tuesday of the second week I was off, Wednesday was Seth, Thursday was New Year's Day, and Friday was Seth's regular Friday off. So out of 10 days, we each only had to take 2 vacation days. Score!

For me, this was like heaven. I was off for 6 days with my little man and I was trying to figure out what fun we would have. Because, let me tell you, if I didn't plan something, I knew we would go stir crazy. And, also let me tell you, being a stay at home mom is HARD. I don't know how you all do it day in and day out so I give you total props! I mean, I assume if I was home all the time I would come up with some sort of routine and it would be more 'normal' for me, but still. TOTAL props!

My first day off (Thursday) was Christmas so that day was pretty much planned for us. Presents with just the 3 of us in the morning followed by family presents followed by nap time followed by dinner time.

Friday Seth was off to work and it was me and the little man : day 1. We started off the day with a fancy breakfast of milk and an Eggo waffle for Mason and some cereal for me. After breakfast, I built his new Little People Wheelies ramp, we went to the grocery store to get a couple things, to the park, ate lunch, I took down the Christmas tree and decorations, he napped, I built his new kitchen and we watched the new Planes movie that he got in his stocking (Planes : Fire and Rescue). 


Then Daddy came home and we went to the mall to meet our in-town and out-of-town family for dinner.


Saturday Mason had a make up swim lesson, we went to the mall to exchange some things and get him some new shoes, he napped, and we went over to our friends' house for dinner and a play date.


Sunday was our typical Sunday : swim lessons, Starbucks, lunch, laundry, grocery shopping, and all that jazz.

I planned a play date with my friend Lauren and her son Logan for Monday morning. And let. me. tell. you. It was GLORIOUS. (Seriously, if I was a SAHM all the time, I would plan a playdate for every morning. We were with them for maybe 3-ish hours and Mason was so tired that he took the most wonderful nap when we got home.) We met around 8am, walked about a mile down the street to Starbucks and a bakery where we got a coffee and a danish for breakfast. We chatted for a while, ate breakfast, and tried to coax the boys into sitting still in a chair for more than 2.7 seconds. Once we knew we had run out of time, we strapped the boys back into their strollers, headed down the street, and to the park. The boys ran and ran and played and played for at least an hour and I only had about 3 heart attacks making sure that Mason didn't fall off the play structure. 


We headed back to her house, let the boys play for about a half hour more, and then Mason and I headed home. It was almost nap time but he seemed to be doing ok so I ran to the grocery store to pick up a couple things and then we headed home for lunch and nap time. We watched Planes : Fire and Rescue for the tenth time since he got it and waited for Daddy to come home.

Tuesday morning was our errand running time. We ate breakfast and then headed out the door. Our first stop was Trader Joe's and the bakery next door to pick up some challah bread. It was my lucky day and the challah was on sale and it was Mason's lucky day because the nice, nice lady gave him a cookie for free (at 8am no less!). He chowed down on his cookie while I wandered through Trader Joe's. We headed home for a few and then were out again to run to Costco before it started raining. We ate our way through Costco and then were back home for lunch (like we needed it after all the free samples!) and nap time. While Mason napped, I caught up on the bill paying, some blog reading, and some planner note taking... and checked on Mason a million times on the monitor to make sure he didn't fall out of the bed.



When he woke up after his nap, I deemed it jammie day and we sat on the couch and cuddled and watched Planes : Fire and Rescue (yes, again) until Daddy got home from work.


And thus ended my stay-at-home-mom-dom.

it. was. PERFECT.

I wish I could have a day like this at least once a month! While I do enjoy my job and going to work on a daily basis, I do thoroughly, thoroughly enjoy my days off with Mason. Just me and my boy. I know it's good for me. It's good for him. And it makes us both SO happy! 

I do not take these days for granted!

Until next time...


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Linking up with Jess.



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[Goals] 2014 Goal Recap and 2015 Goals

Tuesday, January 6, 2015


I don't like making New Years Resolutions. Why? Because I break them. every.single.time. I feel like there is so much pressure to accomplish them, and who needs more pressure in their life. So instead, I like to set goals for myself. What is the difference between a goal and a resolution? Beats me, but call me crazy, I feel like goals are... different and more attainable.

Anyway, in 2014 I set a couple goals for myself in hope of making 2014 count.

Last January I said I wanted to make 2014 count by :
- spending more time with my family - accomplished
- while also spending more time with my friends and people who are important to me - partially accomplished
- pick and choose my battles - accomplished
- make more of an effort - in a way I'd say accomplished, but in a way not. I've added some things to this year's goals to really get myself into this mindset 
- be more organized and plan ahead - definitely tried! I've got meal planning for the week down, but there's definitely parts of this I could continue to work on. 
- try new things - partially accomplished
- live more in the moment - partially accomplished
- have more date nights - partially accomplished. Plan to make this happen FOR SURE this year.

I'd say I did pretty good. I give myself a solid B+.

My word for 2014 was : balance. And I'm disappointed to say... I do not think I achieved the balance that I had hoped for. I think I was doing pretty good throughout the year but then come the holidays, I was feeling wayyyyyy overwhelmed.

So, this year I would like to set some new goals for myself.

2015 Goals :
- take Mason to at least one new park a month and at least one park a week - we have SO many parks around us that Mason could explore. We get in such a rut and just take him to the little one across the street (which is great and all but kinda small and boring). I want to let him explore at least one new park per month which is a goal of visiting 12 new parks this year.
- continue Mason's swim lessons - we just got bumped up to intermediate this past weekend (woohoo!) and he's been doing SO well and LOVING his lessons the past 6 months that we've been taking him. I want to keep it up and encourage his love of the water this coming year.
- assess Mason's skills and determine if enrolling him in a kids soccer class would be good - I found a kids soccer class that I think would be fun for Mason, but I'm not sure if he is coordinated enough for it to be practical.
- date my husband at least once a month - Once a month. Just Seth and I. And I have a plan for this to happen (more to come soon!)
- decrease screen time
- budget - oy. I'm HORRIBLE at this. I know what bills need to be paid when, but sometimes things sneak up and there's trouble. I really want to try to budget this year. If anyone has advice (or a template!) on how I can successfully do this, please do share!
- come up with a weekly or monthly rotation of meals and stick to it - I like routine. And while I don't like eating the same thing every day, I would like to be able to budget better for food and having a weekly (or even monthly) rotation would make this easier. I want to continue to meal plan and start to budget better.
- set up a cleaning schedule and stick to it - I wouldn't say my house is clean, but I wouldn't say it's a pig sty either. It's definitely clean enough to live in but I have a bad habit of printing things or getting magazines in the mail or bills or whatever and letting them pile up. It's time to find a home for everything and keep them there. It's also time to set a cleaning schedule (i.e. Mondays are for cleaning the bathrooms, Tuesdays are for vacuuming, etc) so things actually get done. I often push cleaning off on to the weekends and weekends are for family time, not for cleaning. I need a plan.
- spring (or more winter?) clean - get rid of the clutter and toys that Mason has outgrown and donate. Get rid of clutter I don't need. Get rid of that stuff that I "might wear again" or "might want to use again" or "Mason might want to play with again". I won't and haven't and he doesn't need it. Donate donate donate!
- send more snail mail
- re-do pictures in house and get some canvases printed and hung - I have so many pictures that I want to hang, artwork that Mason has made that I would like to display, and boxes of old pictures in frames that I don't really want anymore. Time to FINALLY unpack that last box (from when we moved almost 2 years ago - eeekkk!) and put those frames to good use.
- go on a family walk at least once a week - ideally I'd like to say a couple nights a week but with it getting so dark so early (like before I even get home from work) I'd like to set a goal of once a week until daylight savings time and then at least twice a week once it's lighter longer.

The list could go on and on, but these are the things I'd really like to focus on. I think it would make our life easier, more organized, and more on track with goals we have for the future.


I'm not sure that I have a word for 2015 though. I guess if I had to pick one, I'd like to try balance again. I think I have a pretty good plan to make it happen this year, but only time will tell :)

I'd like to hold myself accountable this year and recap my goal progress on the last Friday of every month. I think that was part of my problem last year. I wrote a post, made a commitment to myself, and then never referred back to it or tracked my progress. While I don't have a specific timeline for these things, I would like to recap my progress monthly.

So, that's it! My goals for 2015. I think they are attainable and I look forward to working on them.

Happy, happy new year! Much health, happiness and prosperity this year!


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Linking up with these lovely ladies.

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[BOY MOMS] #BOYMOMS Series Recap.

Monday, January 5, 2015

What a ride it's been! I can't believe I started this little series a year ago and have been able to feature so many wonderful moms of little boys! When I started this series last year, I really had no goal or expectation of how long it would last. I initially had great interest in it which kept me busy for the first couple months. People would share their posts on their blogs which would lead me to new boy moms. I would discover new blogs and find out that they were boy moms and I would contact them to see if they were interested in sharing their story and the series kept blooming. I was able to keep the series going for a whole year! A whole year - it exceeded my expectations and dreams!

As we begin a new year, I wanted to recap all of the stories I have shared over the past year and make a mention that I have decided to discontinue posting every Monday and just post occasionally. I don't want to fully close that chapter of my blog (so to speak) but I do want to slow it down.

So, if you're new to the series, welcome!
And please enjoy :)

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First, a little background...

Introduction : How I came up with the #BOYMOMS idea

Guest post on Strawberry Swing and other things introducing #BOYMOMS


Featured Boy Moms

Tamara from The Workout Mama
Stephanie from Wife Mommy Me
Katie from Yellow Mango Life


Sarah from Seeing All Sides
Ali from Through the Looking Glass
Caden from The Randomosity of Southern Fried Domestication


Suzanna from One Hoolie Mama
Jess from Adventures in Ginger Mommyhood
Chelsea from East Willow Grove


Crystal from Hall Around Texas
Cynthia from Living in Neverland
Danielle from The Girlfriend Letters


Carolyn from life, love, & puppy prints
Hayley from Memories of May
Nina from The Joni Journey


Desiree from Macke Monologues
Ida from Second Chances Girl
Laura from tiny toes, little nose


Becky from bybmg
Amy from The Story of Us
Julia from The Everyday Momma


Jessica from The Newly
Lori from A Crazy Walk on the Safe Side
Keri from Living in This Season


Tif from Bright on a Budget
Ashley from Everything's Hunky Dorey
Natasha from Epic Mommy Adventures


Chelsea from The Contented Wife Blog
Megan from Latte Everyday
Sydney from Raisin Southern Grace


Paula from Then Comes Marriage and Then Comes Babies
Annie from Home of the Malones
Rachel from Floral and Fudge


Amber from Belgian and a Half
Jessica from All Because Two People Fell in Love
Bridget from Life as Bridget Knows It


Holly from Holly Atwood Land
Della from Della Devoted
Elizabeth from Chasin' Mason

A HUGE thank you to all the boy moms who guest posted for me! I thoroughly enjoyed reading your stories and sharing them as well. Thank you for being a part of the series!


If you would like to share a post about you and your son, email me at chasinmasonblog@gmail.com .
I would love to feature you! You don't have to have a blog to participate!


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Goodbye 2014. Hello 2015!

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Happy New Year!!!

While it is officially the new year as of today, I wanted to take a minute to recap my favorite moments of 2014. I did this last year (in case you missed it, here is my 2013 recap) and just loved looking back on the highlights of the year before I sat down to review 2014.

- January -


In January, I debuted new blog design and re-branded my blog with it's new name : Chasin' Mason. I also started my #BOYMOMS series and Mason turned 18 months old.

- February -



In February, Mason started Gymboree, we celebrated Valentine's Day, Seth guest posted for a very special BOY DADS feature, and Mason became adventurous with trying new foods.

- March -



In March, I made some Lucky Charms Treats for St. Patrick's Day, I had a girls weekend in San Diego with my scrapbook friends, we celebrated Seth's 32nd birthday and I made Boston Cream Pie Cupcakes for dessert. We celebrated St. Patrick's Day, Seth went to Arizona on a boys weekend to watch the Angels in Spring Training, and Mason learned how to use his bubble gun all by himself.

- April -



In April, I debuted Part 1 and Part 2 of "You know you live with a toddler when...". I shared a recipe for Passover cookies and DIY decorated Easter eggs with temporary tattoos. We celebrated Easter and went on a double surrey bike ride at Irvine Park.

- May -



In May, Seth and I attempted an IKEA hack on their LATT Table : inspiration and painted table. We went to our first Angels game of the season, celebrated Mother's Day, (Mason) had a half naked pillow fight, and I learned a lesson in patience and we celebrated my brother-in-law and niece's birthdays. I talked about feeling mommy guilt and we celebrated Memorial Day.

- June -



In June, Seth guest posted for me, I had another girls weekend getaway with my scrapbook friends, and I started my Summer Bucket List link up (and checked off various items on that list). We celebrated Father's Day and "You know you live when a toddler" Part 3 happened.

- July -



In July, I hosted a blogger toddler birthday gift exchange, Mason started swim lessons, and we celebrated Mason's 2nd birthday with a party and a weekend of fun and celebrated my sister-in-law, niece, and father-in-law's birthdays. We also celebrated Christmas in July.


- August -



In August, I recapped our July visit to the OC Fair, we transformed our IKEA hack LATT Table into an art table, we had a mini stay cation at the Paradise Pier Hotel, and we went to see airplanes and went to the Rascal Flatts concert. I also kicked off my Flashback Friday posts in a countdown to my 30th birthday with Part 1 : the 80's

- September -



In September, I finished my Flashback Friday posts with Part 2 : the 90's and Part 3 : the 2000's. I shared our family photos/Mason's 2 year old photos. We went to an Angels game and the San Diego Zoo, we went apple picking, and Mason started preschool and I announced my Fall Bucket List link up. I shared 30 things about me on my 30th birthday and we celebrated my 30th birthday.

- October -



In October, Mason had his last Gymboree class, we went to the pumpkin patch, I changed my blog URL, and I announced my Secret Santa Mommy and Me Book Exchange. We also surprised my mother-in-law with a surprise 60th birthday party for her.

- November -



In November, I recapped our not so perfect Halloween. Seth and I celebrated our 4 year anniversary with a trip to Santa Barbara for the weekend (Part 1 // Part 2 // Part 3). I had a blogger date where I got to meet Stephanie and Desiree in real life and we celebrated Thanksgiving.

- December -



In December, I recapped Thanksgiving and we kicked off the holiday season with many, many fun activities : the LA Zoo Lights, a boat paradethe Christmas train and I shared our goodies from the Secret Santa Mommy and Me Book Exchange. I shared our 25 days of Christmas books tradition, I co-hosted a blogger holiday gift exchange and we celebrated Christmas.



What a crazy, busy, eventful year. 2014 was good to us but I have high hopes that 2015 will be even better!

Wishing you all a happy, happy, healthy and wonderful New Year!
Happy 2015!


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